Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months
He says he likes me a lot and I feel the same way but he still has not asked for commitment.Should I ask where this is going or just let it happen?We were serious in a couple weeks and I spend all of my free time with him or at his place (which is a hike!
We got in a fight but he said none of the snaps meant anything.You're going to have a lot of issues like this within any given long-term relationship, which is why you need to start developing this skill ASAP.-You can, and probably should.Playing an active role in your own life is always better than playing a passive role in almost every single situation, except when the Macarena starts playing on the radio. What matters is that you find a way to talk about important things as you build a relationship that works for both of you. Even if this not a rejection — and I don’t think this is one — I know it can feel like it. (It’s OK to tease him.) Tell him that you’d like to know more about where he’s coming from — more than that he just “generally waits.” And tell him why you are ready. The reason you should really talk this out is the same reason why I don’t like the word “abnormal.” It doesn’t matter what he does “generally,” just as it doesn’t matter what’s “normal.” This is just about the two of you and nobody else.